How to surrender and set free this November
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November starts with some challenges in the first week or two, where we may be pushed to let go of what’s no longer needed—an idea, a relationship, or even a job—so we can make room for something better.
This month’s energy is linked with the Set Free card: it’s all about releasing, surrendering and letting go.
This energy forecast episode discusses:
November’s predicted high is around pleasure, indulgence, joy, and delight
November’s predicted low is about cleaning, clearing, processing, and letting go of something or someone (an idea, person, or job)
The “Set Free” card: urging a proactive surrender of control, old beliefs, and unhealthy attachments to make room for personal expansion
The importance of practices like meditation, relaxation, and sacral chakra work to support this month’s themes of release, surrender, and non-attachment
Why November’s energy calls for surrender and release
November's energy invites us to embrace the "Set Free" theme, a time of letting go and surrendering. This may involve releasing old beliefs, habits, and relationships that no longer serve our highest good. It's a month where external forces may seem to be in control, reminding us to surrender to a greater plan.
The initial weeks of November may feel like walking on a knife's edge, particularly with external events like the USA election and global tensions. This "sticky" energy calls for heightened awareness and a conscious effort to practice non-attachment and non-judgment. It's a time to let go of old beliefs and thought patterns that limit our growth.
Surrender doesn't mean giving up; it's a proactive act of releasing control and allowing the universe to co-create with us. By surrendering the "how" and trusting the process, we open ourselves to exciting and magical possibilities beyond our limited minds.
“This is a month where we may feel like we’re not in control...there is just something so much bigger than us that is running the show.””
How to let go with love
November asks us to release not just people or situations but also a cutting of the energetic cords and attachments that bind us. This includes relationships, jobs, and any dynamic that feels less than loving. Remember, setting something free doesn't mean we no longer care; it's about releasing control and allowing space for a higher good. If you need a little support with letting go, you might like my Guide To Letting Go ebook.
As we move through November, the energy will gradually shift from contraction to expansion. The latter weeks will bring a sense of lightness, playfulness, and joy, opening doors for manifestation and creation. By surrendering and releasing early on, we can build momentum towards this expansive phase.
Self-love is always important, but it's especially crucial this month. In fact, it was part of the 2024 Guided Collective Energy Forecast’s annual theme. What have we learned and applied this year? We need to be kind and compassionate with ourselves as we navigate these challenging times. Make sure to nurture and nourish yourself on all levels: physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. This will help you stay grounded and centred during this period of transition.
“Often what we need to let go of is not necessarily the person or the job, it’s about the beliefs, judgment and the expectations of how this must go. When we can surrender the ‘how’, things can become not just easier, but they can become exciting and even magical when we allow that space for a higher power or the universe or magic to step in and create in a way that our mind alone cannot.”
Surrender to make room for play and pleasure
This energy forecast brings a focus on the sacral chakra, which is the energy centre associated with relationships, creativity, and pleasure. These themes play a significant role this month and may bring imbalances with this chakra. Anything you can do to support this chakra or to cleanse and balance your chakras will certainly help.
The sacral chakra can be affected by power imbalances, obsessions, and fixations. The antidote is practices like meditation, rest, and relaxation to support your sacral chakra and overall well-being.
Trusting the process
It's time to surrender to the flow of the Universe and allow things to unfold naturally. This may feel uncomfortable at times —particularly this November!— but it's ultimately for the best. November's energy may bring unexpected events and challenges, prompting us to practice surrender, trust, and faith. It's a time to let go of the past, embrace the present, and trust in the unfolding of a greater plan. Remember, the universe is always conspiring in our favour, even when things seem uncertain.
We may feel like we're not in control, but that's okay. There's a higher power at play, and we need to trust the divine timing and unfolding. This doesn't mean we should give up on our dreams or goals. It simply means we need to let go of our attachment to the outcome and allow the universe to work its magic.
“In order to fully surrender, we need to let go of old beliefs that are no longer serving us. This could include beliefs about ourselves, our relationships, or even the world around us. ”
Preparing for a New Beginning
As we approach the end of the year, November's "Set Free" theme prepares us for a new beginning, but it’s bigger than the usual ‘end of year’ reflection and release. Of course, we will need to release the old to create space for new and exciting possibilities in 2025, but it’s also a much bigger message of embracing this time of clearing and healing, knowing that it's a necessary step towards a brighter future.
Releasing happens in phases: the importance of The Guidance Cycle
The energy of November is closely aligned with what I call The Guidance Cycle, a process of clearing, healing, restoring, and manifesting. This month, we're being called to focus on the first two stages: clearing and healing. By releasing old patterns and beliefs, we can create space for new beginnings. This will allow us to move forward with clarity and purpose. Without the clearing and healing, we cannot have a clear pathway forward to manifest.
Tips for releasing and letting go
Here are a few tips to help you navigate the energy of November:
Practice surrender. Let go of your need to control everything and allow the universe to guide you.
Meditate regularly. This will help you stay calm and centered during this time of transition.
Focus on self-love. Be kind and compassionate with yourself as you navigate these challenges.
Rest and relax. Make sure to get plenty of rest and relaxation to help you recharge your batteries.
Trust the process. Know that everything is happening for a reason and that you're exactly where you need to be.
Remember, this is a time of great transformation. By surrendering to the flow of the universe, you can emerge from this month feeling lighter, freer, and more empowered.
